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450 Men and Counting: What I’ve Learned About Real Accountability
This article assured us that accountability is not about shame—it’s about healing. When men choose to live in truth, to be known, and to walk in brotherhood, transformation happens. Accountability isn’t a burden; it’s the bridge between struggle and freedom.
Dean P
13 hours ago


From Curiosity to Captivity: How “Soft” Addictions Become Chains That Bind
Addiction, in any form, rarely begins with the extreme. It often starts subtly—through curiosity, exposure, or what society labels as “harmless.” The path from soft indulgence to destructive dependency is , deceptive, and deeply human. This article explores how early, seemingly innocent experiences can evolve into powerful addictions, using the parallels between pornography and drug use as a lens for understanding the roots of impurity and bondage.
Dean P
2 days ago


Look Where You’re Going
Teaching children to ride a bike is a moment filled with laughter, a few tumbles, and invaluable lessons. One of the most crucial pieces of advice we give them is to look where they want to go. It’s simple yet profound: if they gaze to the right, they’ll veer right; if they look left, they’ll head left. This principle extends beyond biking; it reflects a fundamental truth about life itself. The Power of Focus What we focus on in life significantly influences our direction and
Dean P
Nov 18


Bury, That which is Dead.
Throughout history, mankind has learned to deal with death in many different ways. In fact, one could argue that everyone is familiar with it in some way. Whether we face it directly through someone we were close to or indirectly through a stranger on the news, we all experience emotions tied to death. Humans have specific ways of mourning and coping with grief, though each person handles it differently. Throughout history, cultures have shown us that we bury, burn, and even
Gaven F
Nov 18


The Danger of Being “Fine”
F – Faking I – Ignoring N – Neglecting E – Evading We say it every day: “I’m fine.” It rolls off the tongue effortlessly — a convenient answer, a way to avoid uncomfortable conversations. But let’s be honest: when we say we’re “fine,” more often than not, we’re not. We’re faking peace. We’re ignoring pain. We’re neglecting ourselves. We’re evading vulnerability. And over time, those four little letters carry an invisible weight that can crush even the strongest among
Gaven F
Nov 4


The Never-Ending Journey
Recovery is not a destination—it’s a lifelong journey that shifts, stretches, and humbles us in ways we never expect.
Dean P
Nov 4


A Midnight Snack
Imagine just about any day you could have, a good one, a bad one, a “so-so” one, you could even imagine today. You wake up in the morning and begin to possibly get ready for work, maybe relax for the day, or even just have personal plans ahead of you. Most of us somewhere in there include breakfast. Well, after this, we simply continue to the rest of the morning, it’s almost as if breakfast is a waypoint or a staple time in the morning. Once you have hit it, you begin progres
Gaven F
Nov 4


GO AND SIN NO MORE
Our contemporary culture often distorts compassion into mere compromise, suggesting that a loving Jesus would never label anything as sin.
Dean P
Oct 13


8,000 STEPS TO STUPID
We all want to enjoy life and achieve good things, right? None of us sets out to be foolish or to make bad choices that lead to pain,...
deanp306
Aug 26


What to Do After a Slip or Relapse
Recovering from addiction is a complex journey that often involves navigating slips and relapses. By understanding the emotional and psychological factors at play, implementing practical strategies, and leaning on support systems, individuals can make significant strides in their recovery.
Dean P
Jul 17


My Cup Overflows
By Dean P Recently, I've done a lot of traveling. Throughout my life, I've been on many flights, and there’s always that moment during...
Dean P
Jul 3


Tonight, the Empty Chair Echoes
In the circle of our stories, where laughter used to flow, An empty chair now lingers, a silent, aching glow. Its presence speaks of...
Dean P
Apr 16


Drowning in Despair: The Struggle Against Addiction and the Fight for Survival
Battling addiction can feel like we are drowning.
Dean P
Mar 19


The Secret of Life
The Secret of Life
Dean P
Mar 18


Restoring Trust: The Silent Impact of Betrayal
In the journey of recovery through the 12-steps, making amends is a crucial step, especially when it comes to those we've hurt most...
Dean P
Mar 18


Eastbound and Down
Feeling like you have to keep up with others? Serenity for this author involves contentment.
Dean P
Mar 18


Finding tools in MY Valley
Just like David found smooth stones in the valley, we can find the tools we need to confront the giants in our lives during our low points
Dean P
Mar 12


Chasing Progress, Not Perfection
In our quest for excellence, I often struggle with wanting everything to be perfect. This journey can lead us down a tough path filled...
Dean P
Feb 27


Serving or Savoring? The Call to Prioritize Our Connection with God
By Dean P In Luke 10:41, we meet Martha, who is so busy trying to serve her guest that she forgets to spend time with him. This story...
Dean P
Feb 26


The Great Calm in the Storm
By Dean P In Mark 4:39, we find Jesus resting in a boat when a fierce storm suddenly arises. It’s important to note that several of His...
Dean P
Feb 25
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