Most men will forgive you for never saying 'I love you.' Fewer will forgive feeling disrespected. Stephen Arterburn breaks down why 85 percent of Christian men feel disrespected, and what that number means for the ones sitting quietly in your church, your small group, or your living room.

The people closest to you aren't lying, they're limited. Here's why one opinion never protects you, and why the Bible says to seek many counselors.

It usually starts the same way. A message. A follow. Someone new who seems interested. Nothing about it feels dangerous at first. The conversation is normal… maybe even flattering. It moves quickly, but not in a way that sets off alarms. Just enough to keep you engaged. Just enough to feel like something real might be happening. Then it shifts. The tone changes. The questions get more personal. More direct. Before long, the conversation turns sexual. And in that moment… a decision gets made.